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friends and friendship!!

2009-06-23T21:56:00.000-07:00

Friends and Friendship-

Who is friends, What is friendshipA friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. (Proverbs 17:17)

You can always tell a real friend: when you’ve made a fool of yourself, he doesn’t feel you’ve done a permanent job. (Laurence J. Peter) (Taken from unknown source in net.)

Who is friends and what is meaning of friends A lot of people go through life with only a few friends. It seems that some have less than that. They have no one on whom they can call in good times or bad. There is no one with whom to bounce ideas around, or to talk about deep and troubling subjects. They have no one to call in times of need or difficulty. They are at the mercy of life, standing alone.

Others seem to have a multiple number of friends like google's PageRank which increases in cumulative. Wherever they go, people know them, and like to be around them. when a trouble strike, their biggest hesitation might be over which friend to call. They know exactly the person with whom to discuss the topics of inquiry and debate. Life is full of entertaining and invigorating relationships because it is full of friends. These friends will be like a Degree course in friendship.. When we study them we get lot of knowledge about friendship. They have a lot of ideas flowing and they discuss any topic which is hard to discuss. Who am i without this people...

Of course, some people are perfectly happy to operate with fewer friends. They might rather have a few deep and loyal friends, than many superficial ones. Others thrive best when friends are everywhere and numerous. It is not so much the number of friends that is important as is the possession of friends, period. Loyal and deep friendship is good. It doesn't care about the numbers, Even if you have one loyal trustable friend. it is better than to have hundreds of untrustable, superficial friends. With the trusted friends we can discuss our problem areas and get ideas for solving them also. These friends share their time with us to solve problems. But when you have lots of friends who are not loyal or trustable it is the case of the person who is not having any friends. Even after having hundreds of friends our mind can't able to find real, trustable friends.

Friendship is a blessing...

Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends will cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our orginal limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. Friends are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around, to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.

When you act silly with friends around they also comes and join you and get the enjoyment that you are getting. In the dictionary of friendship there is no word named sorrow. Friends will enter into that word and friends break the word into peices. They motivate us to attain our goal. They will stand by our side when you need a support. you will tell about a girl/guy whom you love and will ask for help for the love. You can't tell the same to parents or any other before the love starts. In our life deciding factor also there is a friend and his/her friendship is helping you. When you get problem in that love all others will run from u but not your bet friend. They help us by challenging( a challenge which motivates us) and also motivates us for reaching our aim.

When you are in college or studies you ask doubts in the subjects not to the professor but to a friend. Friends never says no to anything. They will try to help us and try to solve the doubts. When you play a friend is the first person to cheer you when you do a record. Friends will be the first to treat us without any jealous mind. friends consider the record of yours as theirs and they feel happy by telling about the record to others. In life we share most of the time with friends. We can't share some topics with our parents but we can share any topic, with friends. friends research that topic as a judge and tell us the good's and bad's..

Under this part i trult agree that friendship ia a blessing.. "A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more." I recently met this guy.. Actually he is a stranger to me.. Juz sent me sum messages n i went to meet him.. n now we r very good frend.. I guess god sent him to me to change me attitude.. Guess what before this i'm very stingy ( as what many people say ) whereby i will think twice to give out donations but right now after i meet him i juz took out 10 dolar from my purse without thinking to some spastic childrens.......

He told me that when to give 10 u will get back 100 and it happened.... Such an adorable and wonderful guy ( handsome too ).. Change my mind which always think that getting all A's in exam can lead me to good life.. but than guess what i am wrong.. he told me "Everyone who success in studies doesn't mean he or she will be a sucessfull person in life. Wanna meet ths guy.

Friendship is everlasting...

Friendship is only everlasting feature in this world. There may be biggest miracle which can change the entire world but even in that miracle also friendship will come out from its sleep. Friendship is like a banyan tree. Banyan tree seed is very small, but when it comes out of earth nothing can stop its growth. The same applies to friendship also. Friendship will reside in our heart like the banyan tree seed. When it finds the correct soil in another heart it starts its growth. at one stage when you get more friendly with that person it will become tree after that nothing in this world can stop it. Friends will try to find new ways to make you not to fall. Friends may not save but they never let you go to deep. Friends find innovative ways to stop you from falling and try to get some more help to lift you.

Friendship is courage...

Friends, They are the only source of our brave hearts. When we don't have any friends we won't come out when there is a trouble. But when we have friends with us, We never sit inside during a friend is in problem. We may not be brave but friendship gives courage to our mind and body. Friends will save us from any situations. Friends will help us to escape from big troubles. Friends will come front to solve the problems. Friendship never knows to runaway during problems. A good friend stays when there is problem and goes after the problem solves.

We can tell a lot about friendship and friends. You may have a lot of friends but try to get a friend who is loyal, trustable to us and be like that to your friend also. That is the only meaning of friendship. "BE LOYAL AND TRUSTABLE".

"No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever." - Francois Mocuriac - Sent in by spiff

out of skewl..

2009-06-09T21:21:00.000-07:00

Out Of Skewl.

School can greatly defined as an educational institution that we learn how to be someone as many people are telling... ( only school students knows bout it ). A school is an institution designed to allow and encourage students to learn, under the supervision of teachers. Most countries have systems of formal education, which is commonly compulsory. In these systems, students progress through a series of schools. The names for these schools vary by country but generally include primary school for young children and secondary school for teenagers who have completed primary education.

Such a great place that can't be forgotten in my life time... Eventhough i was a new student in that school but it brings a lot of memorable moments.. When i think bout it i feel so sad and want to go back to school.. When my buddies and i was in school we was waiting for our school life to come to an end. But than after thinking back bout it many of us still want to return to that life forever and ever. Out of school we each and every one of us found different pathways and not being together as what we were in school....

As for me eventhough i stepped into that school when i was sixteen but after two years being a sri amanian it gives me such an impact that i want to go back to school again.. All started from Form 4 Science Cekap.. whereby all the inteligent students was there as for me all of them were inteligent... I thought after obtaining all straight A's in my PMR it would be an easiet life n most of us still in the enjoying mood after Form 3.. Form 4 was an honeymoon year for us.. But than from the guidance of teachers we managed to show great focuses on our form 4 subjects..

One year just went like that it was so fast and the following year i was alredy in form 5... the last year in school to enjoy and have a great time but at the same time we have to focus to do well in our major exam which is a big headache for many of us. My class is Form 5 Science Damai.. Eventhough not many of us remained from 4 Science Cekap but than i started to minggle around and make new frends around... This is my class..

Right now after school one fine sunny day.. While surfing the internet i came across a well desinged blog which the person has jott down about her frends.. I read the article and felt so sad because the wrote about the frends that she met at high skewl and how much they mean to her.. I started to think about my dear frends and buddies who are still in contact with me from primary till secondary, tutions to motivation clases, and seminars to talks.... It was so horrible because after so many years i just left with few frends who are still in contact with me..

I met so many people in past years since i was born. When in that situation i was so close with them and after the session ended our friendships also ended.. So sad.. Let's start from my high school life, with my great frends who still stand fresh in my memory. Well known as best debator in school, well known for her english fluency and well known for her hot temper.. Given name as Jillian Ng Ming Zhu well known as Jill.....

Jill best can described by me as the most adorable person after being a frend of her... I'm still in contact wit her.. Eventhough many people got tell bad things about her but i still can be her good frend.. To have such a frend you need to be blessed.. Trust me you can talk anything to jill share ur stuffs and your thaughts and guess what i found that thing out after i left school and called her up one day and tis is what happened... Being a very gud frend of her rite now i feel like everyting happened before have its own significance and reasons!!!

"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost."

- Charles Caleb Colton -

Moving to the next person the genius in class... Named as Anne Leong called as Annie. Anne is such a wonderfull gurl who i ever meet and known before.. And the best part is everytime we start to talk... our conversation will start with "how is Nick Annie" ( her boyfriend ).. Thinking bout it rite now it drives me crazy... Wanna c her face scroll down.. The one in red..

Next talking bout my class Form 5 Science Damai.. A memorable place in my life. Class which thaught me what is education, what is friendship, what is life and more importantly how to live in a multicultural ountry .In a multicultural classroom, the potential to make space for variations in cultural values of different groups means that not only the immigrant and minority students’ learning can be enhanced, but also that students from majority cultures can benefit from exposure to the dimensions of cultural values. Therefore i have learned lots of things which makes me better in life >>>>>>

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."- Anais Nin

With lots of love, member of 5 SCIENCE DAMAI

KESAVAVARTHINI KRISHNAN

FrEeDoM aNd ThE rIgHts

2009-05-14T01:01:00.000-07:00

FREEDOM

Freedom is the oppurtunity to own our own destiny, within the limits of reasons and morality. One has the power to make their own priorities and to act upon them accodingly. However, freedom has to be balanced with order. When ones freedom constricts with other and gone too far there will undoubtedly consequences.

Sometimes HaRsh consequences.....

Naturally in society and community there are constricts for one to follow. A bugglar got no freedom to steal, the thug cannot have the freedom to mug, and the bussinessman cannot have the freedom to excessively polute and pay no taxes. But get the balance between personal freedom, social order and ecological integrity right, and the vast majority of citizen can live happily with moderate personal freedom and minimal constraints.

For example, the freedom for us to breath clean air is dependent upon the restricction of the freedom for factories to produce as much pollution as they like. So the support for freedom is always a balancing act between the collective long term interests and the interests of the short term interests of individuals or corporation.

Well it is known as freedom.. The word defines the meaning. So why there are still limits for our freedom. Many people realized about it and started to ask questions among themselves. But still there are no prefect answers for it. Freedom can gice us happiness and enjoyness in life if we look at it in a balanced way.

Freedom is self determinaance ; it is condition of minimal constraint. Finally it is important to remember that the freedom that so many of us now take for granted didn't just come about because everybody agreed that it was a 'good idea'. They were literally fayght for by previous generations; that is how much they valued freedom.

We are now the generation taht has become the custodians of freedom.. Freedom is limited thought and untouched emotions.. PEACE OUT !!!

AbOuT tEnTang CinTa....

2009-05-14T00:04:00.000-07:00

Apakah itu percintaan??

Soalan yang sering ditanyakan oleh semua orang. Ada yang telah menemui percintaan sebenar mereka. Tetapi adakah mereka mengetahui definisi percintaan sebenar? Percintaan membawa maksud yang berbeza kepada setiap orang... Ada yang terluka akibat daripada perasaan yang dikaitkan dengan percintaan dan ada yang gembira juga...

Cinta terhadap pelajaran kita amat penting dari bangku sekolah lagi untuk digelar graduan. Cinta terhadap pekerjaan juga amat penting. Perasaan yang wujud ini dapat membuat kita meneruskan perkar yang dibuat itu dengan cekap.

Perasaan yang diperkatakan sebagai perasan aneh ini bermula sejak kita berada dalam kandungan ibu, antara ibu dn anak. Apabila kita menjejak kaki di dunia ini perasaan cinta ini akan tersebar luas kepada ahli keluarga, saudara mara,rakan-rakan dan ke atas bumi yang tercinta ini. Tetapi apakah nama untuk cinta yang lahir ketika kita berusia 18 tahun?????

Adakah ini yang dinamakan sebagai cinta sejati.

Perasaan yang tidak dapat dielakkan dengan apa jua cara sekalipun apabila bertemu dengan seorang yang berlainan jantina dengan kita. Tidak dapat dinafikan saya pun pernah mengalami perasaan dan situasi sebegini. Tetapi bersediakah saya untuk menghadapi cabaran ini?? Seperti mana yang ketahui umum setiap seorang yang lahir di dunia ini akan mengalami sesuatu perasaan yang luar biasa.

Kenapa kita menutup mata ketika tidur? ketika menangis? ketika kita membayangkan sesuatu? Itu kerana hal terindah di dunia ini TIDAK TERLIHAT... jika kita tidak menutup mata. Ketika saya telah menemui seorang ayang keunikannya seiring dengan saya, saya bergabung dengannya dan jatuh dalam suatu keanehan yang dinamakan cinta. Ia sedang berterusan sehingga saat ini.

Tetapi pada saya cinta yang AGUNG, adalah ketika dia menitiskan air mata dan saya MASIH peduli terhadapnya, adalah ketika dia tidak mempedulikan saya, tetapi saya MASIH menunggunya dengan setia, adalah ketika dia mulai mencintai orang lain dan saya masih boleh tersenyum seraya berkata ' Saya turut berbahagia untukmu'........

Apabila cinta tidak berhasil... BEBASKANLAH dirimu... biarkan hatimu kembali melebarkan sayapnya dan terbang ke alam bebas. Sebagai seorang pecinta yang setia INGATLAH bahawa kamu mungkin menemui cinta dan kehilangannya tetapi cinta itu mati, kamu TIDAK perlu mati bersamanya.... Orang yang kuat bukan mereka yang selalu menang, MELAINKAN mereka yang tetap tegar ketika mereka jatuh.

Ada hal-hal yang tidak ingin kita lepaskan. Orang - orang yang tidak ingin kita tinggalkan.... Tapi ingatlah melepaskan itu BUKAN akhir sebuah dunia, melainkan awal suatu kehidupan yang baru.... Kebahagiaan ada untuk mereka yang menangis, mereka yang disakiti, mereka yang mencari... dan mereka yang telah mencuba.. Kerana MEREKALAH yang boleh menghargai betapa pentingnya orang yang telah menyentuh kehidupan mereka.......

Kesimpulannya, cinta itu merupakan suatu yang unik dan teramat rapuh dan mudah pecah.... Sekiranya cinta ini dibuat main main, sudah pasti cinta itu akan retak lalu pecah disebabkan perasaan yang tidak serius dalam BERCINTA...

Cinta perlukan PENGORBANAN & TANGGUNGJAWAB.....................

Saya berharap dengan sepenuh jiwa cinta yang berputik antara kita berdua adalah cinta yang sejati... dan akan berpanjangan sehingga akhir dunia ini... Kita berjanji untuk selamatkan hubungan kita berdua apabila halangan cuba merentasi.................... Saya mencintaimu sepenuh hati!!!